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5月5日
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当了３次伴娘，不要再当了．．．
不然自己嫁出去也困难了．．．
驾照，我的痛．
听说可以走后门．毫不犹豫．．．
装修的事也不管，师傅你爱咋弄咋弄．
到时我就直接去住，要钱的时候通知一下．．．
买车至少得去看一下吧，虽然不太懂，也得装懂一下．．．
决定了，ＬＡＶＩＤＡ１．６Ｌ品悠自动挡．．．
只因听在上汽的哥说了句性价比还不错．．．
好象有点没心没肺啊．．．
Ａ（ＨＩＮＩ）离我远点．．．
不然就躲回黄山修养啦．．． |
4月4日
成功男人为什么偏爱胖女人
女人的身材，是个老命题。
在人人争当清汤排骨的时代，粉蒸肉已经越来越少，全是人为的功劳。服装店里的韩版服装越来越多，窄小的尺寸绝对挑战女人的腰身，连衣服都变得挑剔，一个“瘦”字似乎代表了女人所有的美。
盈盈不足一握的纤腰弱腕，几乎成了“仙女”的代名词。更加可以理解：为何病恹恹的林黛玉如此受后世人的追捧。谁让人家瘦得可怜！
回到现实生活中，不是这么回事儿了。
总有女人不服气：“看看那些成功男人，身边带出来的老婆莫不一个个四肢粗壮五官平凡，他们难道瞎了眼，看不见我们这些窈窕美人？”
不是他们看不见，而是男人眼里，女人不单单是用来看的。
古代情色小说中，常有描写挑选女人的准则：女人分中看的和中用的两类。中看不一定中用，中用不一定中看。中看的有“三宜”：宜瘦不宜肥，宜小不宜大，宜娇怯不宜强健；中用的恰好相反：宜肥不宜瘦，宜大不宜小，宜强健不宜娇怯。
这就是男人的眼光，美女是用来欣赏的，未必是用来过日子的，娶老婆也如同买家具，结实耐用是硬道理。结婚前，可以你瞧我看，结婚后，必然你拥我抱，睡在一张床上，黑暗中，谁也不想天天搂着竹竿石板硌一身骨头疼。一对夫妻一天二十四小时，除去上班，大部分时间都在床上度过，中用的确比中看来得实惠。
于是不难理解，那么多成功男士不娶窈窕美女为妻，却让相貌平凡、身材丰硕的女人相伴枕席。
除去舒服的硬道理，另一个原因则是：越是成功的男人越重视“福气”，而相学中最重要的一条就是——太瘦的女人不能聚福，骨肉丰匀才是宜夫宜家相。
有钱人亦有点八卦，红颜美人多薄命，是几千年的老调调了，他们信，代代信。
都说男人喜欢性感的女人，但与性感的女人比起来，男人更喜欢肉感的女人！男人也懂得这样的科学：常年节食体形消瘦的女人往往缺乏性欲。
男人不是高雅的动物，始终认为：性比爱更重要！胖上三五斤，看上去舒服，摸上去更舒服！
结婚前，可以瘦一点，结婚后，尽量胖一些。身体是本钱，不光老人认这样的道理，男人也是一样。
想嫁到好男人，不一定非要让自己变得更美，可以让自己变得更畅销。
但是，瘦，绝对不是女人全部的畅销元素。
3月7日 今天将怀着无比郁闷的心情度过了...
自以为自己的心态很好,之前在英国经历了那么些,还对自己说以后不会遇到再坏的事了.可为什么坐在驾驶室里,坐在考官旁边马上就会脑袋空白的呀...
真的很不争气的呢.
一次熄火,两次熄火,一次后溜,一切又得从头开始,现在已经不知道怎么调节自己了.只能对对我抱很大希望的人说声抱歉了.
下车前,师傅说了声,我们再联系吧.我真的是哭笑不得...
没办法.再来第三次吧...
12月23日 《非诚勿扰》经典台词总结
（1）范伟：你看看咱们说中文呢，还是说英文呢？
葛优：您定，哪个顺口您说哪个。
范伟：那还是说母语吧。Nice to Meet You…
（2）葛优：你这不是捣乱吗？我登的是征婚广告。
冯远征：你的广告上没说男人免谈。
葛优：那不是废话吗？我又不是同性恋。难道你是……
冯远征：我是。你怎么知道你不是？我以前也以为我不是，后来才知道是不敢面对。(3）葛优：要倒插门？你们家怎么走啊？
罗海琼（苗族姑娘）：先坐飞机到昆明，再坐一天的长途车到蒙自，再坐汽车到屏边，再坐一天的拖拉机，一天的牛车就到我们家了。
葛优：要是咱们俩不好，能离婚吗？
罗海琼：我哥哥会打断你的腿的。
（4）葛优：病秧子似的，你就不担心婚姻的质量？你这个年龄，我直说啊，正是如狼似虎的年纪。
车晓：您觉得爱情的基础就是性吗？没有怎么了？照样能白头到老，当然我的意思是完全不能有，但是别太频繁。
葛优：那你觉得多长时间算不频繁呢？
车晓：（伸出一个手指头）
葛优：一个月一次？
车晓：我的梦想，一年一次。
（5）徐若瑄：你不是说你不在乎孩子是不是亲生的吗？
葛优：孤儿我认可，父母双全是另一回事，宝马车头放一奔驰标，这不太合适吧，出了故障，奔驰零件配不上，宝马又不管修，咋办？”
葛优：这娶老婆生孩子的事情，我还是自力更生吧，不接受外援！
（6）葛优：我怎么这么倒霉，凡是长得顺眼的，不是卖墓地，就是性冷淡，要不就心怀鬼胎，这心理健康历史清白的姑娘怎么就那么难找？
（7）葛优：找一仙女怎么了，我想给我们老秦家改变改变基因有什么错？还非得找一难看的，天天想着越狱吗？
（8）葛优：你不算顺眼的，你是仙女级的，人都说情人眼里出西施，你在仇人眼里都是西施。
（9）葛优：你这么漂亮，吃了多可惜，不如留着生小熊吧！
（10）葛优忏悔忏悔了4个小时，牧师受不了了。
牧师：我们的教堂太小了，装不下他那么大的罪恶，前面还有一个比较大的教堂。 看了非诚勿扰...30块真的很值...
首先翻译为If u are the one...可以感受到翻译者的用心，如果你是那一个？是我想找的那一个。。。
结果呢，几个不靠谱的人出现了，冯远征扮演的GAY，徐若暄的未婚先育，还有卖墓地的等等，似乎是个喜剧。但舒淇和葛优之间细腻的感情却又将它把一喜剧片升华了。。。
那些貌似极度乐观的人其实才是最脆弱的，Penny说的。的确，那是那些心理脆弱的人掩饰自己的方式，没有人知道黑夜中她们能做的或许只是点支香烟，独自抚平被撕裂的伤口。
现在有些男人很俗，不重视女生的内涵，一味的注重外表，换句话说，他们只注重美女的内涵，这也是看了电影有感而发。。。
非诚勿扰可以用在很多地方，尤其是那些正在选择爱情的人的身上。。。 12月9日 还要说到7月的时候,当时准备把户口迁来杭州,然后得知需要外国学历认证,跑了2趟,总算在9月之前拿到了...心想这回OK了,跑去公安局,被告之还差留学工作许可证,这回又白跑了...心里那个郁闷啊...一个破外国学历真麻烦...最后又跑了2次,坐公车的时间都够回家一趟了...哎...
11月29日 回国以后几乎不写日志了,好象大家都差不多,以前那日子过的真的是清闲啊,所以好象有很多时间在逛网页什么的,现在虽说也很悠闲,但好象日子过的有点平淡,也没什么好说的了.
我已经逐渐熟悉杭州这个城市了,知道哪的东西好吃, 知道哪的东西便宜,那天妈妈和姑姑来看我,我带她们去淘鞋,7双才400块,把她们开心的...
新房的钥匙要去拿了,接下来就有好多事要做了,路考,装修,搬家,似乎结婚也离我不远了...看来一切都如预计的那样即将来临...我很乐意去接受它们.只是希望能和酱缸永远像现在这样开心就好了.
快要过年了,我仍和孩子一样很盼望过年,又可以回家了,我真的是个很恋家的人哦...
祝我的朋友都好...过年回家见 8月9日
今天和小J 聊了聊，都潜意识里发觉周围弥漫着一种说不清的氛围，人们都从原来的轻松调侃变成了冷漠相对,让我这个习惯于简单生活,简单工作的人感到莫名的压抑.小J 问我为什么,我答不上来,是否各自的压力造成的,又或是何年何月的某一天我怒到了人家... 想着想着头就很痛,不去想了吧, 正如小J说的, 这是必然的, 能控制的了就不是我小A了. 自我调整, 接着我就又成长了… 7月5日
08 射手
Sagittarius 11/22-12/21
Year 2008 Overview
You're not one to give up on anything without a fight. This year, you need to prove to yourself that you absolutely can do anything your heart desires. You have a friendly nature, and feel very comfortable enjoying the group dynamics of different social scenes. Having high personal values, and being very idealistic, are just some of the reasons why you attract so many gifts and blessing from others -- not to mention having a natural talent for attracting money easily all year round.
You will feel deep transformation in your attitudes about money and your personal values, and are seriously thinking about what is important in your life. You may find you may are not placing as much importance on having physical things. Security may present itself through family and friendships instead of through objects and possessions.
You desire a deeper connection and emotional bonding with your family, exploring the ideas you have learned from your parents. You will appreciate some of the perennial wisdom that has been passed down to you from your ancestors. By the summer, you feel a new closeness in your relationships and will juggle love and work in order to maintain balance. Personal transformation is far more appealing than outer changes, this year.
Monthly Overview
On the 1st, your communication skills are excellent. Your analytic powers are sharp. Your sense of responsibility is dead-on. Your communication is stellar. In short, things are going great; at home, at work, and in your love life. Oh, and your workouts have been pretty awesome lately, too. Why not hope out of your chair sometime today-maybe right after your coffee break -- and do a little thankfulness dance to the benevolent powers of summertime? It never hurts to say thank you. By the 5th, if you know what's good for you, you'll follow whatever your mood dictates. If you want to go for a run, go for a run. If you want to take a nap, take a nap. On the 9th, don't let anybody drive you crazy. By the 16th and 17th, you will be so chock-full of good will and happiness that you might not know what to do with all of your positive good energy! Why not spread it around? By the 22nd, you're going to be more than ready to impress a few strangers. Then, on the 27th get outside and hit the waves! You need to feel the full force of mother nature! On the 30th you'll be anything but bored.
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Love
Daily Overview for June 18, 2008
Daily Flirt:
Try not to make a big deal out of your good mood -- there's no need for you to run it in if anyone else is feeling down! Still, it's a good time to have fun with your sweetie, or acquire a new one!
Daily Couples:
In the next few days, you may hear from someone from your past -- someone you never expected to hear from again. If you feel uneasy about it, talk it over with your sweetie. They can help you decide what you want to do.
Daily Singles:
Music and art inspire you to find romance in every day events. Let the passion the flooded through the veins of famous musicians and painters take over your senses. Be a conduit for enchantment.
Weekly
Welcome some warm and fuzzy feelings as the week gets going, and know that your romantic destiny lies in your own hot little hands. What do you want now? Have fun while making it happen! Then something (or someone) you're taking for granted deserves a reevaluation around Wednesday or Thursday. Apply your awesome power of original thinking, and see what new and totally unique solutions you can find. Singletons, take note -- this weekend's just right for meeting new people! If you're coupled up, now's the time to uncover something you've yet to find out about your sweetie.
Monthly
Don't be disconcerted if on the 1st you're not quite sure what's going on when it comes to your romantic life. Sometimes things are just a little unclear! It's nothing to get upset about. In fact, instead of letting it bother you that neither of you knows quite where yourself or the other stands, why not try to enjoy it? After all, this figuring-it-all-out phase is part of the excitement popularly known as 'romance.' On the 5th, you two may be feeling slightly mismatched. Is this permanent issue or just a temporary effect of circumstances? Only time will tell! The 9th and 10th are bad days for rushing through the details when it comes to your feelings. Pay close attention to the little cues you're getting, not just the big ones. The 15th, if you want to be alone, check out of all this romantic negotiation for a few hours! On the 17th, your romantic confidence will be through the roof -- and extremely well-founded. On the 20th, take stock of your personal emotional stores. Have you been neglecting them with all of this other-centric energy dominating your actions lately? The 26th, you'll feel physically fit and romantically active. Enjoy! End the month with some more negotiations on the 30th.
Year 2008 Romance
You strive for perfection, using your warm nature as a guide. Having an intimate relationship will be very important, as you seek a partner to match your high energy levels. You enjoy having a partner that will respond to the charm that you radiate. Communication of your own ideals will be easy as you discuss shared visions with your partner.
You may become dreamier this year, allowing spiritual ideas of connecting with another to become a driving force in your life. People will be very attracted to your warm and generous nature and your happy-go-lucky attitude. Your identity is based on and maintaining harmony and balance in your relationship, and this is one of the most important aspects of who you are. In the spring, you will enjoy snuggling up to the love of your life. With all the changes you've been feeling in your home life, it will be nice to have someone that's comforting and nurturing to help make your home more comfortable.
If you don't have a love relationship, or if you are already in one, by the summer, you will be falling in love all over again. The needs and wants of others are just as important as your own. You learn to balance your relationship this year, and communication becomes easier and more important to you as you learn to accept both your differences and similarities. You are feeling totally connected and passionate in this intimate relationship. Your are on fire, and may just get more deeply enthralled with the idea of having love as the focus of your time.
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Year 2008 Career
With an ambitious fire and sense of perfectionism, you remain a hard worker who enjoys responsibility. You thrive on achievement, success and recognition, and you have a never ending well of energy to accomplish your goals. Your persistence will help you to achieve beyond your wildest imagination, this year. You will give work your all and reap the rewards of a job well done. You make a good teacher and a wonderful role model through your work. You could do well at working with handicapped people, helping them in their desires and succeed in making their dreams a reality.
You're a good team player and think of others in addition to yourself. As much as you like being surrounded by beautiful things, you are very practical in the way you spend money and don't like wasting it on frivolities. You are very clear minded in the way you want your achievements in your career path to look and are good at setting timelines to achieve the results you feel important. You possess great managerial abilities and organizational skills, and have a strong ability to make sound business decisions.
Even though you are very efficient in the way you manage time, you might tend to get yourself overscheduled and not allow yourself enough time to relax. In the summer, you will get a big boost in your career and will achieve the recognition you deserve. By autumn, you feel much more organized and energized. Perhaps it would be an ideal 6月2日 All the staffs were busy wiz decorating our school, some of the pic r shown as follows,
Susan---cc,easygoing n full of passion. in addition,married...
  
Jackie,the girl I love n who love me so much,haha
  
Kiko---fairy girl, accompany wiz me everyday...
 
Joy---naughty kid...make all the people surrounding u so happy
 
Joan---elegant, seems quite mature,hwr, jux a lovely kid,p.s.gud shape...
 
John n Peter---I .T. talents
Luv u,all the guys,let's get together, making wittykids to be better... 4月15日
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在天津呆了一个星期的时间，虽然城市给人的感觉还不错，但干干的天气，怪怪的口音，难吃的饭菜还是让我觉得杭州得好好
狗不理总店前
在慧特的这些日子的培训，让我感受到了天津人的直爽，真诚以及他们的认真，KATE,DEREK,JESSICA,这些人的身上我真的学到了不少对我今后有用的东西。也让我看到的英语培训的市场之大。后天就开始上班了，希望我们这个团队能一起把这个机构办的越来越好，期待着杭州第二家分校的创办。。。
 吃饱了 | 3月19日 来杭一个月了，感觉是Job-hunting&relax并进。。。回国后知道了什么叫时代浪潮一浪接一浪，而我却只能在海浪打过的沙滩上留下孤零零的足印。。。永远觉得晚它一点。。。幸好的是和我一起在沙滩上漫步的还有康夫及我的家人。。。这些年走来总觉得身边有个贵人在帮我，人生的每个阶段，每个坎坷和挫折总有人帮助我去化解。。。一直很感激这些人，今天爸爸来电话了，我突然意识到，我心里一直一直以来的贵人就是他。。。从高中为了让我就读到最好的学校，到黄山学院的英语系，到报考安师大，到出国签证，到现在的找工作，他总是一边说不急，不要有压力，一边却尽他所能去帮助我。。。有了他，我似乎就有了信心，而且总感觉心里暖暖的。。。真的要加油了，拿出出国前的自信，拿出在英国打工吃苦的精神，拿出一个人承受压力的能力。。。一定没有问题的。。。FIGHTING给自己加油。顺便祝自己下周去新东方面试顺利。。。 2月23日 元宵过完，新年也过完了。。。见了老同学，和爸妈团聚，吃吃好吃的，这些都是在英国所期盼的。。。 当然并不是一切都那么的完美，那天晚上酒醉后的大哭一场，心里的滋味只有自己知道。。。看着爸爸在阳台上猛吸着烟，妈妈在我旁边忍不住的伤心，我真的很不是滋味。。。那晚我的努力都白费了。。。好言好语，在别人看来所谓的大度，宽容，在她们家人的眼里全是她妈的废话。。。 没什么好说的了，能做的我都做了，说我演戏也好，什么也好，都不在乎了。。。真的，打在自己身上的只有自己才知道痛。旁人最多不过拿同情的眼光看你，所以告诉自己这段曾经的亲情永永远远也无法挽回了。。。因为我的心死了。。。  1月21日
回国20天了，一直在忙，没有时间写下自己回国的心情。。。从伦敦飞香港，再到杭州，之后的黄山游，海南游，到现在又飞到杭州。真的是身心疲惫。还没有时间让自己去适应，就已经在这过程中适应了。。。适应了室内的烟雾缭绕，适应了车水马龙，适应了人声嘈杂，因为永远只有人去适应环境。慢慢的人静下来了，但心还不行。有很多事还要去做。有时觉得累了，烦了就很想逃到贝法，享受那份独处的幽静。
去了海南，求了签，希望师父解的签能够灵验，现在只能寄托于自身的努力和这份心灵依托了。08年，好运。。。 12月26日
今年硬是跟着洪玮翎去了鬼佬家过了X-MAS EVE，体会了一把。。。丰盛的晚餐，圣诞树下的礼物，X-MAS MUSIC，还有主人的热情好客，这一切都让我兴奋不已。。。之后X-MAS DAY，和AMY在空无一人的街道上闲逛时，无意中发现了一家开着的咖啡点心店，很是惊喜，进去才知圣诞这天全部的茶点咖啡免费。。。主人的慷慨与善良以及他们可爱的孩子，真的让我觉得：哇，X-MAS！ 今天的BOXING DAY，不用说罗，一定是从早逛到晚罗，逛到很有成就感。。。朋友的，爸妈的，康夫的礼物。。。好像老是买不齐似的。。。恩。还有3天就回去了。。。有点开始舍不得了。。。 12月21日 和BILLY，AMY还有JOCELIN吃了DIM-SUM，可能是临走前的最后一餐吧。。。 回家的路上，穿过校园，很安静，没有人。。。和AMY在校园的椅子上坐了坐，感慨即将的离别。。。此时的校园变得尤其得令人追忆。。。很多人都会问明年我还会来吗？一切都是未知。明年如果一个人再在这奋斗一年，回国之后一切还是得从头开始，又有谁知道这一年的时间在这渡过是否值得。。。再说吧。。。在杭州买了房子了，听酱缸说那是个比较悠闲的城市，没有上海的繁华，也没有北京的拥挤，正是我所向往的。。。虽然我知道刚回国的两年会很辛苦，但我愿意，因为那是我向往的稳定生活，是我自己的选择。。。倒数着回国的日子，还有10天了。。。再见了，贝法。。。我应该还会回来的。。。 12月11日 今天算是很有意义的一天，首先祝自己生日快乐，同时也是去拿硕士服的日子。。。去年的今天自己许下的愿望就是能顺顺利利毕业，今年的今天有实现了。。。刚刚给妈妈打了电话，因为和妈妈的生日就差一天，所以就互相祝贺罗。她在电话里说好想我。。。嘿嘿，我又何尝不是呢。。。快要走了，虽然有回国的兴奋，但也有太多的不舍，因为自己也不确定会不会再回来。。。我很想说真的很开心在英国认识你们，碧霞---像个邻家姐姐一样时不时地给我关心，我们俩之间似乎有种特殊的默契，虽然我们认识的时间并不长，但她真的是我在英国那段低潮期时的精神依靠。。 玮翎---一个心地很好的MM，在她眼中，似乎任何事物都是美好的，对人也都是真心的付出，所以她成了我闲暇时谈话的好朋友。。 JOCELIN---我知道你现在属于低谷期，我完全理解你现在的心情，因为我也曾经历过，但请坚强点，因为只有自己才能帮自己。。。还有Xiaomeng， Carrier， Chris，真的很开心认识你们。。。希望你们在贝法的日子开开心心 10月25日
此次伦敦之行之收获：
1 第一次一个人的旅行。
这次瞒着所有人，我开始了一个人的旅行。。。一直和爸妈还有康夫说和同学一起去的英格兰，但其实上只是我一个人而已。。。为的只是不想他们担心而已，而且我觉得自己OK的。。。之后自己去的机场，做的bus, 火车。。。也学着看地图，找路标。。。除了误了几趟火车，还算顺利。。。
2 在伦敦认识的朋友。
Lee min和Dong Min是我在伦敦认识的韩国朋友（相册里有），真的很开心认识他们，尽管语言不通，但凭着简单的英文和body language也聊得很是开心。。。男帅女靓，为我的伦敦之行增色不少。。。离别前，韩国MM含泪的眼神让我难忘。。。希望有机会再见。。。
还有不得不提的就是那个不靠谱的男人。。。他经典的不靠谱事件：1）他一直对韩国女生说，离婚了记得给我电话哦。。。2）打游戏打的居然误了飞机，还是在候机室里哦。。。3）一边说你是我心中永远的美少女，接着马上说，你和我妈好像哦，让人哭笑不得。。。ETC
3 伦敦真的是购物和旅游的天堂
很开心见到了大本钟，伦敦眼，游了泰晤士河，大英博物馆，还有cradem market, Arsnel club... 但还有太多值得去的地方，下次吧。。。
总之真的是很开心的一次旅行。。。 9月26日
今早我家楼下附件发生了汽车爆炸事件，以下就是关于此事件的报道。。。今天凌晨3点多的时候，在沉睡中的我被一阵喧闹吵醒，目睹了一场火灾。。。不过我并未受到任何影响，所以无需担心。。。只是真的有被吓到。。。
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
By Claire McNeilly
There has been widespread condemnation after two young Ulster families had to be rescued from their homes after vandals set a number of cars alight early this morning.
A man in his mid-30s has been arrested and is helping police with their inquiries.
A total of 15 firefighters and three appliances attended the scene at the height of the blaze, which occurred at Jerusalem Street in south Belfast around 3.30am.
The narrow road caused parking difficulties and firefighters were forced to use hoses from either end of the street to access four cars which were ablaze.
Speaking to the Belfast Telegraph today, Assistant Group Commander David Patton said that people could have been killed had gas cylinders in a nearby vehicle exploded.
"It could have been a lot worse if the gas cylinders had been involved in the fire," he said.
"They could have killed people last night. It's hard enough dealing with accidental fires."
Belfast Lord Mayor Jim Rodgers described the incident as "horrific" and slammed those behind it.
"There are quite clearly some people who are hell bent on making life difficult for the families and a number of students who live in the area," he said.
"This used to be a quiet area of south Belfast, which has changed over the years - and not for the better. Even one incident is too many."
South Belfast DUP MLA Jimmy Spratt called on the PSNI to "get tough" on this sort of behaviour.
"The trail of destruction which ripped through the Holylands last night is totally unacceptable and must be condemned," he added.
"The local community are living in fear. It has got to the stage where local people are prisoners in their own homes. Nobody should have to live in such circumstances."
Alliance South Belfast MLA Anna Lo, who said she was "appalled" by the attacks, has also called for a bigger police presence in the area.
"The police should try to put more officers on the beat in the area to tackle these thugs," she said.
"This type of vandalism cannot be tolerated and this attack has compounded the disgraceful intimidation that the local community suffered."
SDLP South Belfast MP Dr Alasdair McDonnell said the incident was "the last straw for hard-pressed residents".
"This is the nightmare scenario that all of us worried about and some of us warned about," he said. "It is more by good luck than good guidance that we are not reading about fatalities this morning."
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